The Ugly Truth About Harassment and Discrimination in the Restaurant Industry The restaurant industry has a reputation for being chaotic, fast-paced, and high-pressure. But behind the scenes, beyond the heat of the kitchen and the endless rush of service, there’s something darker that too many people accept as “just the way it is.” Harassment and discrimination aren’t just occasional incidents; they’re woven into the culture of the industry like grease into a chef’s apron. And that’s a problem. A Silent Epidemic According to studies from the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) and countless industry surveys, about 40% of restaurant workers experience some form of harassment or discrimination. Think about that. Almost half of the people working in kitchens, bars, and dining rooms have been made to feel powerless, unsafe, or less than human while doing their jobs. Yet, it’s brushed off. “Toughen up.” “That’s just how it is.” “Welcome to the industry.” The toxic culture o...
The Dark Side of The Kitchen: How the Restaurant Industry Broke Me Hello, I’m Gabriello, the creator of The Mindful Chef Movement , and this is the story of how I entered the restaurant industry and why, after more than a decade, I had to leave the kitchen. I was born in Tuscany, Italy, into a family of humble means. My mother came from the countryside, while my father was a city man, two different worlds colliding under one roof. Growing up, I dreamed of becoming many things: a doctor, an architect, a musician. But my passion for cooking was born from family. My grandmother made handmade pasta that was unforgettable. My uncle, one of the most important figures in my life, was a hunter. I remember seeing wild boar, pheasant, and hare on our table. Both my parents cooked. My mom made endless dishes to satisfy my picky tastes, while my father excelled with fish. Christmas dinners were grand affairs with 20 people seated at a table filled with fish dishes. It was then I realized I loved b...